As president of my synagogue (this is the last year) I have the honor of addressing the congregation on Kol Nidre. Here is what I said a few weeks ago. Thanks for reading it.
You stand this day, all of you, before your God, your
tribal heads, your elders, your officials, all the men of Israel, your
children, your wives, even the stranger within your camp…to enter into the covenant…I have put before you life and death, blessing and
curse. Choose life so that you and your offspring will live.”
These are the words from the Torah that we
will read tomorrow morning, and while I am not one to play favorites, they are some
of the most powerful and thought-provoking in our text.
Imagine you were there--because, according to
our teachings, you were. Picture yourself standing in the large crowd of
Israelites that Moses has gathered together. As he recounts all that you have
been through in your wanderings, the montage is playing in your mind like a
Hollywood film: the Exodus, revelation at Sinai, the golden calf, building the
ark, wars and famine. Through it all, you have observed the commandments, and
your tribe has grown in number.
You have followed Moses on this truly awesome
journey—from the outset, your destination was decreed, even though the path, at
times, was unclear. And now, here you are, about to realize your destiny, all
that has been promised to you and at the climactic moment, you are being asked one
more time "are you sure?"
While some may refer to the Jews as the
chosen people, this portion of the Torah reminds us that it is really we who must
do the choosing. God may have brought us out of Egypt, rescued us from
bondage, and redeemed us, but the ultimate promise of becoming God's people could
not be fulfilled unless we were willing participants. Even after all that
transpired, the Israelites could not truly become the Jewish people unless they
chose to do so.
Being
Jewish, being part of a community, finding a way to make life more meaningful,
more spiritual, more connected to ancestors or to God--these are all active
decisions. Moreover, an individual’s
actions and decisions are not isolated to that single person: “Choose life so that you and your offspring can live."
Your choices are not only the essence of your personal Judaism, they are critical to preserving and building
the future of Judaism for generations to come.
Of course, it is not always so deliberate. When my parents dragged me
and my sister to synagogue every Friday night when we were children, I don’t
think they did it in the hopes of creating a future synagogue president or a Jewish
educator. But they did want us to share their belief system and values, and to
develop a framework on which we could build our lives. As I grew up, I learned that Judaism and
synagogue life were more than ritual and study. They were faith, a moral
compass and community that not only supported my family in our dark hours or
rejoiced with us in celebration, but served as a regular part of our daily lives.
And so my husband and I chose this life for our children as well,
hoping they will be feel comforted by God’s presence, secure in their
convictions, strong from their community, wise from helping those around them.
We want them to come to know their place in this chain and to understand that
the choices they make are not just about the here and now, but will have
ramifications for generations to come.
When I think about all that our ancestors—both those from 5000 years
ago and those from 50 years ago—went through and fought for just to have the privilege of choosing
Judaism, I find it interesting, ironic and perhaps a bit frustrating, that
today, there seems to be a great deal of discussion about how we need to make
it much easier to be Jewish. According
to many in our community, even synagogues like Rodeph Sholom--known for its diversity,
openness and eagerness to welcome a wide range of observers--make it far too difficult
for people to lead Jewish lives. We impose restrictions that ask too much of
anyone. For example, we assume that people might actually want to be here. We want
them to want to be members of a warm
caring community. We try to preserve the tradition of communal study and
prayer. We even ask children to attend classes, learn Hebrew, Jewish history
and Torah. We simply refuse to give up so many of the traditions that have
sustained us for thousands of years.
Of course Rodeph Sholom, like all our institutions, must respond to changing
demographics, technological innovation and other societal forces. But the
texts, rituals and practices that have sustained us for thousands of years must
continue to be our guide. If each generation takes away a little bit of ritual,
a little bit of knowledge, a little bit of obligation, on what will the next
generation stand? And the next? Eventually, our choices will narrow the options of the future.
And so, I am grateful to all of you. Your presence—your choice to come here
tonight--is a fulfillment of the covenant made so many thousands of years ago.
You have selected a life of learning, of ritual, of community service. By
opting to be a part of this congregation, you have created the opportunity for
others to do the same. Your commitment will preserve Rodeph Sholom for
generations to come. You have chosen
life so that our children can live.
We at Rodeph Sholom know these are not easy
choices to make. People have limited time and resources. Demographics are
shifting, for many the economy is still uncertain and the public debate is
loud, challenging and at times discouraging.
But we see tremendous opportunity and potential.
Since 1842, our dedication to Jewish life filled with prayer, study and
community service has been unwavering. We are proud to demonstrate how
powerful, how fulfilling, how exciting Jewish life can and should be.
While there are communities in which ritual
feels stagnant and routine, Rodeph Sholom chooses to offer 5 different prayer
options most Shabbat mornings, an array of holiday observances, services for
families with members with special needs, at least 2 seders, a weekly minyan
and many other ways to engage in prayer.
While there are communities that are scaling
back their educational offerings and requirements, Rodeph Sholom has chosen to
develop innovative and challenging Judaic curricula for our children, offer
diverse youth programming, provide stimulating adult education classes, and give
unmatched learning opportunities with our clergy and scholars.
While there are places that must be focused on
their own needs, Rodeph Sholom will continue to serve its community with
programs like Mitzvah Day, our food drive, a homeless shelter, One Voice to
Save Choice, and Backpack Buddies, a new program that will provide food to
children at a local school on a weekly basis.
And while there are communities in which
members do not feel connected, Rodeph Sholom will continue to offer a book
club, mah johng, trips to Israel, community theater, lunch programs, and other
social events.
And, most importantly, while there are communities
struggling or others that seek to restrict members, Rodeph Sholom is honored
and proud to be able to keep its most sacred promise of offering membership to
all who seek it—regardless of their financial situation.
None of these programs—or the hundreds more
that take place here each year--would be possible without your time, commitment
and your generous financial support. It is because of your choices that we are
able to be the diverse, open, welcoming congregation that our ancestors
foresaw.
Everyone who desires it can be included in this
promise—all who chose to can have access to this sacred vow. As we will read
tomorrow:
“I make this covenant with
its sanctions, not with you alone, but both with those who are standing here
with us this day and with those who
are not with us here this day.”
Thousands of years ago, we stood shoulder to
shoulder as one community with all the Jews that were and all that were yet to
be.
The power of this text, this holiday, this
promise, goes beyond tonight and beyond all of us who are here right now; it started
long ago and will reach far into the future.
In these final hours of repentance, reflection
and preparation, remember that the choices we make and the actions we take must
sustain our remarkable heritage for generations and must create a robust foundation
and vibrant future for all who come after us.
On
behalf of the entire congregation, thank you for your support,
participation and generosity. I am so very honored to have had this role in our
community.
My family joins me in wishing you a g’mar tov and 5774
blessed with hope, happiness, health and peace. Shana tovah.